First of all I wanted to thank everyone for their kind words and support last week. I means so much to me. I am so thankful for my friends and family but sometimes I feel like my blogging family best understands what it is like to go through stuff like this. Friday I spent most of the day recovering from my CVS. It is not the worst thing in the world but I was pretty sore. I was supposed to work on my dissertation this weekend but I spent most of my time reading every journal article I could find on low papp-a. I found one article which was pretty scary. Most though said that I will probably be okay. Sometimes it leads to bad outcomes but that is not the norm. I do think he may come early though (although how early I am not sure).
On Thursday, my husband was supposed to come back to work after our appointment. Our appointment was not supposed to take long and his office is less than a mile away. Our appointment ended up taking over 2 hours and he did not feel up to working after it. They were concerned when he did not come back. He did not tell his boss all the details but did tell him we got some unexpected news and I am now officially high risk. He told my husband to take all the time he needs to deal with stuff throughout the pregnancy. He also told him that he could use the company card to take me out to wherever I wanted to go to eat (when I felt up to it). I chose Olive Garden and stuffed my face with pasta, bread sticks, cheesecake, and mocktails. It was fantastic! We decided to just enjoy ourselves and not talk about baby stuff. My husband’s family also came to see us this weekend (it was already scheduled). It was really nice to see them and to have a distraction while waiting for our results.
Today our MFM called us with our preliminary FISH results. These results come 2 business days after the CVS and full results come in 10 more days. The FISH results came back negative for trisomy 13, 18, and 21 (our genetic test had come back at an elevated risk for 18 and 21). It also confirmed that he is a boy (we knew that from PGS). Our complete results which come in 10 days will include results from our Chromosomal Microarray (CMA) testing (that looks at a bunch of other stuff and verifies the FISH results). I am nervous about that but today I choose to be happy and celebrate these initial results. I am also now able to look at my baby’s ultrasound without getting upset so I thought I would share a few pictures.
I am not a doctor but I think he looks perfect. I love him so much. – Jennie
My heart goes out to you guys! I have to agree, I’d be celebrating those little victories too. Hoping and praying all comes back negative /low risk. That was a very sweet gesture by your hubby’s boss. Xx
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it really was! It was so nice to have a distraction like that. I told my husband to let his boss know how much I appreciated it.
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You know exactly how I feel about this!! YAYAYAYAYAYAY and I love that you stuffed your face:) Feed the little man!
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I think I ate enough carbs that night to last me a week. It was totally worth it though!
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Good news travels fast
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It sure does 🙂
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Wow I can’t even imagine what you guys are going through. But celebrating the good news you have received so far!!
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That is our plan. Take it day by day and celebrate all things good.
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I think it’s just awesome that your first results have all come back good! And I am so hopeful that the rest will as well. Also, I adore how supportive your husband’s company is being, and it sounds like you really needed a good meal!
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Yeah I was really touched by their kind gesture. A good meal was exactly what I needed.
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Praying that the rest of your results are stellar!! So happy FISH results were normal 🙂
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Thanks!
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Such wonderful news! I will be keeping you in my prayers that the full report brings you great news too! Btw, your Olive Garden date sounds aaaahmazing!
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Thanks and it was amazing. I am kind of a carb addict so I was in heaven!
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Congratulations! Awful though I know that wait can be, take comfort in knowing that the statistics are massively on your side. During my pregnancy I got told every risk factor going and was tested for everything with scans every week by the third trimester. It is hugely stressful. That baby is turning one at the end of this month 🙂 eat whatever your body tells you to eat and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy.
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I am glad your baby is ok. It is also comforting to hear success stories like that. I do try to remember that odds are that things will work out.
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So happy for y’all that things are looking up!
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That’s for sure!
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So far so good love! Those initial results are worth their weight in gold for sure!
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Yes they sure are!
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That was great news for the first results. Still sending lots of love and prayers your way.
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Thanks and I hope all is well with you!
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So happy to hear that the first set of results came back great! More vibes for the second set to come back with more good news.
I have to agree, your baby boy looks pretty perfect!
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Aww thanks!
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I’m so sorry to hear that you are having to go through all of this!! I’m glad to hear you have been taking it easy and spoiling yourself and your taste buds! It’s great news that your preliminary results came back negative!! I’ll be praying that the complete set comes back negative as well!! Hopefully, then you can get some peace of mind and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!
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Yeah that would be nice. For now I am taking it day by day. I hope things have continued to go well for you!
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This is gooooood news!!!! Continued prayers!!!!!! Xoxo
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thanks!
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I’m relieved that the first set of results came back okay. Definitely worth an Olive Garden binge. Keeping you in my thoughts for the next set of results!
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Haha it was definitely a binge but totally worth it! Thanks so much 🙂
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I will keep you in my prayers! Sending good vibes your way…
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Thank you I appreciate it!
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Oh this is such great news. Hoping that everything else comes back as positively as this round x
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Me too thanks!
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All the best! Hoping for a healthy boy. Hang in there. Pregnancies aren’t all straight forward unfortunately.
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That is so true. Thanks so much for your kind words.
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Small victories 🙂 hope the rest of the news comes back negative and low risk as well! xx
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I hope so too! I will celebrate all the small victories we get 🙂
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I’m so glad that you’ve gotten good news so far! Keep the good news coming! ❤
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Yes that would be great!
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I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers and I’m wishing you peace day by day. ❤
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Thank you so much.
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So glad those initial results have come back normal – you must be so relieved. And he looks gorgeous. I would be munching those photos all day long 🙂
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Aww thanks! He is pretty cute 🙂
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He is beautiful. xxx
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Awww thanks!
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